The real meaning of Love in my opinion is caring for the other person more than yourself.
Doing for the other person all the time.
Giving to the other person as much as you can.
Giving a gift to your loved one is equally as enjoyable as receiving a gift.
Making the other person happy, and showing understanding is needed each day.
Changing their mood, if upset, or them showing stress, anxiety, is of great importance.
Showing Compassion, treating them special with Love and affection is par for the course.
Showing goodness each moment of the day, to balance all the bad things one can endure.
Showing Passion purely from the Heart is utmost in a relationship.
But showing genuine respect for another is a key essential in a relationship.
You can have goodness within you, respect within you, pure love within you, Passion & Compassion,
but it must be willingly received by the other.
Many never experience any of the above, even going out with someone, engaged to someone, or being married to someone.
It is common to be used, abused and disrespected, topped off by being taken advantage of.
Some who are fortunate enough to experience the real meaning of Love, True Love purely from the Heart, with total respect shown all the time,
The question is the one receiving this maybe for the first time in their lives, have the choice to appreciate it, enjoy it, and experience it fully while this exists in their lives.
A special person may come along once in their lives, who displays all these qualities.
Some never ever experience anything like this in their lives to the full extent.
And many do to mind set, discard someone like this, maybe because they become accustomed to this, or in the back of their minds, there is an age difference, so that puts the other on the shelf sort of speak.
Respect,Love, Romance, Compassion, Sacrifice,& Passion should be enjoyed to the fullest.
To be loved in a very special way, but never experience the full extent of Love, is an opportunity that is wasted in ones life.
And if you let it pass you by, only regret will stay with you forever.
You can not buy Joy to your heart.
You can not buy that smile he gives you, or when he makes you laugh.
Anyone feeling lonely, and has someone in their lives that displays all the ingredients of very special qualities, such as respect, pure love,compassion, and passion to them personally, should realize that the reality is before them.
Some say keep your hearts open, for love will find it way in.
For others, love has found it's way in, but the reaction, the reflex(spark) is not there or alive.
by Jim Turano
July 14,2014
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